Logan Ury | How to Not Die Alone Author & Behavioral Scientist

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Date Smarter is a 6-week bootcamp and private community for anyone who is ready to find their person. I’ll help you identify the patterns that are holding you back and teach you a strategic playbook for finding love.

A class? What about one-on-one coaching? After working with hundreds of clients, I’ve found that people make the biggest changes to their lives when they have a community of people around them who are working toward the same goal.

“I can’t take a dating class. My problems are unique!” I imagine you saying.

But here’s the thing: Most of us suffer from the same set of problems holding us back.

This course will provide you with much of the information that I share in one-on-one coaching, with the added benefit of group accountability.

We learn better when we learn together — with deadlines, accountability, and community.

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Let me introduce myself.

I’m a behavioral scientist turned dating coach, and the author of the bestselling book How To Not Die Alone. As the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, I conduct research to help people find love. After studying psychology at Harvard, I ran Google’s behavioral science team—the Irrational Lab. 

How to Not Die Alone is a data-driven, step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises. It’s designed to transform your life. 

A definitive guide for a generation navigating the murky waters of modern love.” - ESTHER PEREL